Ephemeral Gloom, Eternal Bloom

Ephemeral Gloom, Eternal Bloom - Seniors Today

In the wake of the Covid pandemic, we all have been left to hope for the best while bracing for the worst, writes Nagesh Alai

I had literally welcomed 2020 from the top of the world – by summiting the 12,000-feet snowy but sylvan Dayara Bugyal (means “lush meadows”) in the Uttarkashi district in Uttarakhand. The trek from the plains to the peaks was an immersive experience of bounteous nature at its best, and the resilience and fortitude of the people who live it out in the tough climes of the heights. Whoever thought that the climb down from the lofty peaks to the lowly plains will in a matter of few months expose all of us and the world to the pathogen of the millennium. 

A microbe invisible to the naked eye came knocking, laid waste to lives and livelihood, and transformed for ever the way of living and working, as we have all seen since March when panic, pandemonium and pandemic coalesced to close down countries and economies. The quest for a cure led to a search for discovery of a vaccine, which has as yet been elusive except for claims from the likes of Pfizer and Serum Institute and several others. Some governments like the US and Spain have been brash and blasé resulting in lakhs of casualties while others like India have been more proactive albeit unthought and kneejerk leading to spikes after early stem, as testing increased. 

 

Grinding halt

Daily wage earners were the worst affected, with lakhs forced to exit from urban earnings and migrate back to rural poverty. If not for the munificence of the people and government measures, albeit belated, lakhs would have perished. Industries like hospitality, entertainment and travel collapsed to moribund anaemia. Infrastructure industries came to a grinding halt with the labour force missing. Work from home became the norm for every working person, delightful initially but distraught finally to see a 9 to 5 job becoming a near 24 hours digital work any time. Zoom conferences deluged all social platforms and after the initial enthusiasm of ‘feel good’ and ‘feeling important’, most were zombied out. The social animals in humans became digital robots given the compulsions of social distancing, masks and sanitisers. Hugs became bugs, kiss went amiss, real meetings became virtual greetings and laughs went smirks. 

Urban runs and walks went indoors, but roads saw millions of old and the young walking 100s of kms back to their villages, eating outdoors went indoor orders, weddings and functions went virtual with all the fun of eats and greets and treats absent. Festivals and celebrations were homely affairs, seas and lakes and ponds were spared the immersion of the gods, garba dances stilled, crackers went silent. Traffic went off roads and pollution went underground. Tellingly, nature acknowledged the reduction of pollution and painted the sky and the horizon with myriad hues bright and cheerful. 

The healthcare system was overstrained but was so well handled by the selfless doctors and healthcare workers. Many lives have been tragically and prematurely lost to the inveterate microbe. Many went for covid treatment, but several never returned. Cremations were done without consoling shoulders. General wellbeing of people plunged, so did the GDP.

However, the biggest silver lining or rather the gold lining has been families have been forced to be together, spend time with each other, tend to each other and become more accepting of each other. Nothing to beat happy families during unhappy times. 

Given the choice between the devil and the deep sea, in spite of no clear cure and control, economies have been reopened with the expectation that herd immunity would have developed and that you and me will be careful and cautious on the back of constant messaging. Essentially, we all have been left to hope for the best while bracing for the worst.

As we near the end of 2020, have we all learnt 20-20? 

 

Learning from the pandemic

I don’t know if I have come out better than what I was in the beginning of 2020, but most definitely am thankful and happy to see the sunrise today and share some of my simple but significant learnings with the readers.

Every day counts for we know not if we will be gifted tomorrow. Be grateful and enjoy the ‘now’.

There is plenty of time; time is infinite, but our life is not – it is for us to use it wisely or waste it foolishly. I had some delightful and wondrous learnings about our ancient Indian philosophical thoughts over two-months during the lockdown. Our culture is a veritable treasure trove of exceptional thinkers and thoughts. 

We can either despair about the situation or repair our position. Choose the latter – build your immunity – of your body and mind. We will automatically be better prepared to face any situation. I have several friends well over 60 – almost 90% of them were worried about attracting the microbe. The other 10% got into active immunity building – in terms of breathing exercises, physical exercises and eating right. This gave them the confidence to handle the scary and morbid times.

Never assume that we are in complete control, we never are! 

Family matters, so do true friends – we all enter and exit alone, but family and friends make our journey worthwhile. 

Seek out senior citizens that you know and proffer help – make them feel secure and wanted.

If you are fortunate to have surplus of anything, just share it and lighten yourself.

Be responsible and never let your guard down – wearing masks and avoiding crowds is a must, why run the risk of exposure. Shed the bravado that it can only happen to others.

Reach out to your neighbours, if any in their family have got the virus – they do need our help and support in more ways than one – for tomorrow it could be our turn.

Empathise with doctors and healthcare workers who are relentlessly helping people recover at the risk of their own lives.

WhatsApp is a great university of shares and views – every Ram, Rahim and Ramsay will share or hold forth and force a point of view about Covid and cure and everything under the sun, but most of it will be junk or unverified – sift out the chaff for your own good and mental wellbeing.

Being closeted with family is good and great, but if your neck is going to be spondylitised by WhatsApp all the time, you will only crane the relationships. Be smart and throw out the smartphones.

The only way to get rid of the fear of the unknown and have some equipoise is to meditate – catch your ‘me’ time and experience ‘inner solitude’. Great way to declutter your mind and myths. Withdrawal from the world often is not escapism, but catharsis.

Respond wisely, react prudently – for what will remain with people is your deeds and words at crucial moments.

As we near the end of 2020, I have realised that the plains are not a bad place to be in – it makes you grounded and real – and can prepare you for your next climb to the peaks. That’s what I plan to do in the not-too-distant future – for me, hope is in the mind and belief is in the action. 

Gloom will die, but bloom will thrive!

About Nagesh Alai

Nagesh Alai is a management consultant, an independent director on company boards, and cofounder of a B2B enterprise tech startup. He retired in 2016 as the Group Chairman of FCB Ulka Group and Vice Chairman FCB Worldwide. Elder care and education are causes close to his heart.

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