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The Kohlis on a holiday
        from the neighbouring people that my husband’s        us and it took some convincing that we would
        family had once owned the place. My husband           definitely pay otherwise we wouldn’t take the
        said, why don’t  you buy a shawl, you have come       merchandised.
        to your sasural for the first time and how can         The next year we went back to Lahore for the
        you go empty-handed? (I had been married after        conference Mr Lutfulla, who had befriended us
        Partition and had never seen the place.) I told       in Pindi, came to the airport in Lahore to receive

        my husband I have enough shawls and I didn’t          us. However, from Lahore we took a flight to
        want another one. The shopkeeper who heard            Pindi together, went to meet Mr Lutfulla’s niece
        our conversation intervened and said I should         who was the doctor. We all had breakfast together
        take at least one shawl, repeating my husband’s       and from there we took a taxi to Peshawar. We
        sentence, “You have come to your sasural for          became very good friends and exchanged emails
        the first time how can you go empty-handed?”          off and on and met him in Sri Lanka and other
        With much reluctance I chose one shawl and got        places where conferences were held.
        it packed. The shopkeeper would not take any           Many years later when 26/11 happened, within
        money, and after trying to prevail on him for half    5-7 minutes we got a call from Mr Lutfulla saying,
        an hour I finally insisted if he didn’t take any      “I know your house is five to seven minutes
        money we would leave the shop. He eventually          away from the Oberoi, and I hope you are safe.” I
        took the token amount of 10%. When we left the        replied that we were. He added “Koi mazhab nahi
        neighbouring shopkeepers all came out to say          sikhata aisa kaam karna. I shall pray for your
        goodbye to us. It was a heartwenching moment.         safety and welfare.”
        It was strange how once the shopkeepers knew
        we were from India they didn’t want to charge         As told to Sushmita Bhattrai
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