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Anshuman’s journey to the US and back is a                                                                       experience in teaching and research helped
         twice-told tale of perseverance and success.                                                                     her sail through the ‘mandatory training’
         Born in Ahmedabad, he migrated to Kansas                                                                         period of two years after which Karishma was
         in 1977 for further studies in Industrial                                                                        able to join her. Both mother and daughter
         Engineering. Earlier on, his struggles were                                                                      proceeded to make Belfast their home.
         plentiful because of his ‘Gujlish’ (English                                                                      Like most NRIs, she is nostalgic about the
         parsed with Gujarati words). There were                                                                          life she left behind but she feels it was most
         many firsts like failing an exam because he                                                                      opportune that she immigrated. Had she
         was unable to understand the professor’s                                                                         stayed back in India she would have leaned
         accent or he, a Hindu Brahmin working as                                                                         more on her family but the move to a foreign
         a campus janitor because he did not want                                                                         country propelled her to take ownership of
         to put financial constraints on his parents.                                                                     her life on her own terms.                         Amol and Swati Sardesai
         In extraordinarily little time, he was living      Anjali and Karishma                                            After 24 years at the NHS Hospital, she           The story of Amol and Swati Sardesai began
         the American dream of a suburban life with                                                                       recently retired as the department head of         in the 90s as two passionate young collegians
         weekends spent watching football amidst                                                                          Anaesthesiology (a post she held for 12 years).    living in Dadar, Mumbai. In 1998, throwing
         family, friends, margaritas, and beer.                                                                           She recalls facing her share of biases because     caution to the winds, these two lovebirds
          However, he yearned for a life of simple                                                                        of the locals’ unawareness of the existence of     with one child in arms dared to dream, and
         living and high thinking. After fulfilling                                                                       any other religion besides Christianity. In due    set sail on an adventure that would lead them
         his commitments towards his family, he set                                                                       course, both Anjali and her daughter found         to the far shores of United States and their
         forth to incorporate in rural Gujarat, the                                                                       acceptance and were heartily welcomed              first port of call, St. Louis. Weathering the
         core models of business excellence he had                                                                        by the locals. Anjali visits India frequently      usual hardships that fall upon people fresh
         learned in the US. ‘Anshudada’s’ vision was to                                                                   and her nostalgia is vividly visible in the        off the boat, they forged on finally hitching
         empower women and create self-sufficiency                                                                        memories she evokes through her ceramics,          their ‘horse and wagon’ in Houston, Texas.
         within the agrarian economy by using locally                                                                     but the permanence she seeks is in Belfast.        They are a well-established couple with two
         grown products. Today, his NGO saralvikas.         Anjali Ceramics                                                                                                  children set towards successful careers. Swati
         org, (a foundation named after his mother                                                                        Amol & Swati Sardesai – The Adventurers            Sardesai (nee Korde) is a Professor at Houston
         Sarlaben) is considered a model of success in                                                                                                                       Community College teaching creative arts and
         graminudyog. His guiding beacons are his                                                                                                                            Amol is a Creative Director at Pennebaker,
         father Krishnakant Desai, PhD, an educator                                                                                                                          Inc. Both have Black Belts in Karate and Amol
         (fondly eulogised with ‘An era of education in                                                                                                                      has participated in the half iron marathon.
         Gujarat has ended’ upon his death), mother                                                                                                                          While Amol has won international awards
         Sarlaben and Mahatma Gandhi that help him                                                                                                                           for graphic design work, Swati has had her
         balance his life in both worlds.                                                                                                                                    watercolours showcased in different parts
                                                                                                                                                                             of the United States including Houston’s
         Anjali Kusurkar – Study in Perseverance            Brigadier Bhonsale and family                                 Amol and Swati Sardesai                            renowned museum district. They are both US
         Anjali, daughter of Brigadier Bhonsale             of  BJ Medical College, Pune, and a career                                                                       citizens with a penchant to dream even bigger
         (Infantry Regiment, Marathas),replicates           medical professional found it hard to juggle                                                                     and when asked if the clock could be turned
         the pioneering spirit of women that                a career as a single parent on a meagre salary                                                                   back would they do things differently they
         succeed in the face of all odds. She had to        of Rs 7,000 per month. She had no choice                                                                         say, “We were born and raised in Mumbai and
         make some difficult choices having been            but to make a heart-wrenching decision.                                                                          had friends from all over the world and as
         widowed at a young age when her husband            Leaving her daughter under the care of doting                                                                    thankful as we are for those experiences, we
         Dileep Kusurkar, a consultant anaesthetist,        grandparents,she accepted a position in                                                                          have created a peaceful abode here now and
         succumbed to a heart attack. She, a graduate       Belfast, Northern Ireland. Her considerable                   Exhibited Art                                      relish our new memories.”


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