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sex – once they had decided on a guy they would       leads, while reality takes a back seat.
        want to marry.                                         Millennials are open to sex and experimenting
         The hippie culture, Osho, and the availability of    with sex, with a range of relationship labels such
        contraceptives bought about a sexual revolution.      as – Monogamous, Open, Polyamorous, Long-
        Girls were more open to having sex and                distance, Friends With Benefits, and the like.
        exploring multiple partners.                          They prefer live-in over getting married. The idea

                                                              here remains to be “getting to know the partner
        The permissive age                                    closely” before sealing the deal. When it comes
        Today’s dating landscape is complex and               to marriage a lot of the millennials prefer to meet
        endlessly full of possibility thanks to dozens        new romantic prospects through their friends
        of apps and websites. Dating happens over             and common interests; however, there are quite
        technology using a plethora of dating apps            a number of people who have found their match
        depending on the sexual orientation – Tinder,         over these dating apps.
        Bumble, OkCupid, Hinge, Woo, Aisle, Grindr,            Certainly, technology has changed the definition
        Scruff, PlanetRomeo, Zoe, Just She, Fem… The          of consent and celebrates relationships all
        concept of dating which was relished back in the      over the spectrum, from straight to pansexual.
        day has become fast-paced left and right swipes       There are no boundaries maintained sexually
        – the gateway to hookup culture. Online dating is     or emotionally and also, no one wants be
        all about how appealing the profile is, how witty
        is the bio, and the social media compatibility.       accountable for their acts. The love that was felt
        Instead of actually meeting each other in person,     just by holding hands seems to have diminished
        girls and boys these days prefer texts and chats      in this complex carefree dating era. Is this the
        until one is charmed by the other. The virtual life   beginning of a dating apocalypse?

















































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