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The laws that govern us are still not clear        owner of what you have earned in your
         and not too much in favour of a Senior             lifetime and being your children does not
         Citizen, particularly if they have handed          give them the right to your assets and
         over everything to their children, in their        money. You may use it for your retirement,
         lifetime. So, please be very Cautious and          or secure your grandchildren’s future with
         Careful!                                           it, or even give it out in charity – you have
          Do not let your adult children push               the right to spend it any which way you
         the button that triggers your need for             like!
         acceptance and attention from them. If you          I would like to end with a quote: “Freedom
         are willing to say no, just do so. Emotions of     is not I-don’t-care-or-whatever-attitude.
         fear, hope, guilt, remorse, or threat should       That’s ignorance. True freedom is I-know-
         not direct your feelings.                          what’s-at-stake-and-therefore-I’ll-act-
          Lastly, remember that you are the sole            accordingly.” Be Responsible, Be Free.







                                               “Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all
                                               the love you want to give, but cannot. All the
                                               unspent love gathers up in the corners of your
                                               eyes, the lump in your throat, and in the hol-
                                               low part of your chest. Grief is just love with no
                                               place to go.” – Jamie Anderson


                                               Psychologists believe writing about grief can
                                               reduce pain. Research has found that putting
                                               down one’s thoughts about worries and concerns
                                               can help those looking for ways to cope with their
                                               grief.


                                               While writing requires motivation, energy and
                                               dedication, it’s easy, less stressful and all one
                Share                          needs is a pen, paper, computer or your device
                                               keypad. You don’t have to talk to anyone about it.
                  Your                         At Seniors Today, we are happy to provide you a

                                               forum to publish your personal accounts. Simply
                 Grief                         mail them to us at editor@seniorstoday.in with

                                               Share Your Grief in the subject. Please also include
                                               your name and contact number so that we may
                                               contact you in case we wish to make any clarifi-
                                               cation. While we would like you to write the first
                                               person account with your name, we will – need-
                                               less to say – not disclose your information if you
                                               wouldn’t like us to.






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