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         Presage & Age






         It is best not to let your IQ yield to the EQ.  After all, none of us are in absolute
         control of ours or for that matter others’ lives and neither was it meant to be,
         writes Nagesh Alai

         Navin Vora (name changed), aged 85,                in their 80s, have their children settled
         an automobile engineer did exceedingly             abroad. Mr Srivastava is of good health,
         well in his corporate life, was married to         but Mrs Srivastava is dependent and
         a lovely homemaker, and had brought                wheelchair bound. A practical man of
         up his two children with care and world            wisdom and experience, he chose to move
         class education. He retired about a score          to an assisted old age home down south
         ago and was leading a happy retired life           in Kovai (Coimbatore). The community
         with his wife in his airy apartment and            complex provides for all possible assistance
         feeling proud about his children.  His             and medical care that the aged may need and
         son is a top-echelon executive in a well-          an ecosystem of healthy eating and group          S Kumar
         known technology company and is doing              activities.
         exceedingly well, thanks to his high                Mrs Sreedevi Chandran (name changed),
         education and competence. His daughter             a widow aged 86, lives all alone in a distant
         is married and well settled. Everything            suburb. Both her children live abroad, busy
         was going fine till his wife’s sudden death        in their respective calling. Her children stay
         earlier this year. After a brief stay with his     in touch with her regularly and order her
         son, today, he is lodged in an old age home,       daily needs on Amazon (talk of beneficent
         bereft of the companionship of his late wife       technology) and try their best to ensure her
         and any feelings of his children. Navin Vora       comfort. She has a set of good neighbours
         is in decent health, but would never have          (god bless them) who are supportive and
         imagined that he would find himself in this        keep a check on her.
         situation. Extremely gregarious and witty,          Another known person gave away all his
         full of zest for life, he is desolate today and a   wealth and home in advance to his children,
         shadow of his former self.                         thinking that they will take care of him.
          Mr and Mrs Srivastava (name changed),             Unfortunately, to cut a long story short, he is


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