Are social media platforms modern marvels of connection, or carefully engineered traps?
Last week, a jury in Los Angeles delivered a verdict that has reignited a global debate: it found Meta and YouTube negligent in a case involving harm to a young user. The jury concluded that addictive design features on these platforms contributed to her anxiety and depression.
It is a moment that forces us to ask—are social media platforms modern marvels of connection, or carefully engineered traps?
The Maverick: A Tool That Transformed the World
Social media, at its best, is nothing short of revolutionary. It has democratised communication, allowing voices from remote villages to echo across continents. It has reunited families, enabled grassroots movements, and provided education at scale.
As media theorist Marshall McLuhan famously said, “The medium is the message.” Social media has reshaped not just what we say, but how we think, interact, and perceive reality.
During crises—from pandemics to natural disasters—platforms like Meta’s networks have enabled rapid information sharing. For seniors, especially, they offer connection in an otherwise isolating world: a WhatsApp group, a Facebook community, a YouTube yoga class.
In this light, social media appears as a maverick—bold, disruptive, and empowering.
The Monster: Designed to Keep You Hooked
Yet the same features that make social media engaging may also make it dangerous.
The Los Angeles case highlighted “addictive design”—features such as infinite scrolling, autoplay videos, and algorithmic recommendations. These are not accidental. They are rooted in behavioural psychology, designed to maximise user engagement.
Former Google design ethicist Tristan Harris has warned: “It’s not that people lack willpower. It’s that apps and websites are designed to exploit psychological vulnerabilities.”
Studies have linked excessive social media use to rising rates of anxiety, depression, and poor sleep—particularly among young users. The constant comparison, the pressure to perform, the dopamine-driven feedback loops of “likes” and shares—these can quietly erode mental well-being.
Even Mark Zuckerberg has acknowledged the duality, stating in past testimonies that while the company aims to build community, it must also take responsibility for harmful effects.
The Science Behind the Scroll
At the heart of the issue lies neuroscience
Every notification, like, or comment triggers a small release of dopamine—the brain’s reward chemical. Over time, this creates a habit loop: cue, action, reward.
Dr Anna Lembke, author of Dopamine Nation, explains: “The more we stimulate our reward pathways, the more we can tip into compulsive overuse.”
In simple terms, what begins as casual use can gradually become compulsion.
A Generational Divide
Interestingly, the impact varies across age groups.
- Young users are more vulnerable to identity-related stress, cyberbullying, and comparison culture.
- Older adults, particularly in India, often benefit from connection, learning, and reduced loneliness.
For a senior discovering devotional music on YouTube or reconnecting with school friends on Facebook, the experience is often enriching rather than harmful.
This duality complicates the narrative. The same tool can heal or harm—depending on how it is used.
Regulation, Responsibility, and the Road Ahead
The Los Angeles verdict may signal a shift. Governments and courts are increasingly scrutinising Big Tech.
In the UK and Europe, legislation such as online safety laws aims to hold platforms accountable. India, too, is evolving its digital regulations.
But responsibility does not rest with companies alone.
As philosopher Aristotle observed, “We are what we repeatedly do.” Our habits—how often we scroll, what we consume, when we log off—matter deeply.
So, Monster or Maverick?
Perhaps the answer is: both.
Social media is neither inherently good nor evil. It is a powerful tool—one that reflects human intention, amplified by technology.
Used mindfully, it can be a bridge. Used carelessly, it can become a burden.
For readers—especially seniors navigating this digital age—the goal is not withdrawal, but wisdom:
- Set boundaries: limit screen time
- Curate your feed: follow what uplifts, unfollow what drains
- Engage actively, not passively
- Most importantly, remember: real life still exists beyond the screen
In a world of algorithms, the most powerful choice remains human.
And perhaps that is where the real story lies—not in whether social media is a monster or a maverick, but in whether we choose to master it, or let it master us.






