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Life Lessons




        Of propriety and


        property



         It doesn’t take much to turn daugh-
         ters from loving children into abusive
         strangers, writes Vickram Sethi













        The year is 1948. Daryaganj in Delhi is a             qualified as a marine engineer and has got a job
        predominantly Muslim locality. Many families          in the merchant navy. Family friends suggested
        have migrated to Pakistan and many are still          a match for Inder and he married Rama.
        in the process of doing so. Two brothers, both        The younger brother Sardari Lal is called
        working for railways, decide to buy a property        Chachaji and his wife Kanta was Chachiji. They
        jointly and they buy a large haveli in Daryaganj.     have one son, who did his hotel management,
        It’s the kind of haveli that you see in old movies    fell in love with a colleague, married her and
        like Pakeezah – Hakim sahab’s haveli. But it          moved to her parent’s house in Daughter 1endra
        was going cheap, and both the brothers put in         Nagar. Chachaji had one daughter who died of
        Rs 5000 each and purchased the property. You          cancer.
        enter into the haveli into a large courtyard that      Chachaji had a massive heart attack and died
        leads to a large veranda on three sides behind        at the breakfast table, after which his wife Kanta
        which are the rooms. There is also a first-floor      closed her part of the house and moved in with
        terrace that has two rooms. After the veranda         her son in Rajendra Nagar.
        is another courtyard that has a pomegranate            Pitaji and his wife Savitri continue to live in
        tree and a small vegetable patch. The second          Daryaganj. Inder was on board ship and he got a
        courtyard leads to a drawing room, three large        job where he could take his wife along on board.
        bedrooms on either side and a small storage           Later on Inder got an opportunity to be based
        room, a toilet and a bathroom. The brothers had       in Hong Kong for two years. Rama and Inder
        built two kitchens. Beside the main entrances,        moved to Hong Kong and the entire family was
        there were two side entrances for the servants.       very excited at the prospect of going on vacation
        The two brothers are married to two sisters.          to Hong Kong. One by one all the sisters and
        The elder brother’s wife is Savitri. They have        their children travelled to Hong Kong.
        four children one son and three daughters.            Life in Mumbai
        He is called Pitaji by the entire family and the      Inder decided they would move back and found
        extended family. Pitaji’s eldest daughter Raj         himself a shore job in Mumbai. They bought
        (daughter 1) is married to a wealthy timber           themselves a two-bedroom flat in Bandra.
        merchant’s family in Lucknow. Usha (daughter           A few years later Savitri had a heart attack and
        2) the second daughter is married in Delhi.           died in her sleep. Rama flew to Delhi with her
        Aruna (daughter 3) the youngest daughter              kids and announced her decision to bring Pitaji
        is also married in Delhi. Pitaji’s son Inder          back with her to Bombay. Pitaji happily agreed.

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