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as a fashion statement now! However, I feel,
                                                              discussing these taboo topics are necessary to not
                                                              only find solutions to problems, but to further
                                                              our cultural intellect as a whole society. It’s only
                                                              when we discuss topics openly can we tackle
                                                              issues like how porn can affect people’s life. One
                                                              can argue, porn can help normalising desire,
                                                              viewing porn can be a “safe” way to explore
                                                              sexuality, it can also be treated as a way to explore
                                                              and validate sexual desire.

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                                                              Going too far
         Then came ‘Erotic electro stimulation’, also
        popularly known as sex toys. From stone dildos        BTW, don’t get me wrong, I am not suggesting
        to hi-tech vibrators is how the sex industry          or advocating in favour of porn, but the problem
        has grown. These equipments started gaining           with porn is that it goes too far at times! We have
        popularity across the globe backed with sound         got to be clear what is real and what is scripted.
        technology, the porn market witnessed a new           Remember, when you’re watching a porn film,
        trend. As per the ‘grand view research’ report,       you’re watching a work of fiction. It’s no more
        the sex toys market size is valued at almost USD      spontaneous and natural. In fact, porn is full of
        26.5 billion and is projected to grow at a CAGR of    toxic lies. Porn is artificial, It is pure fantasy, it
        9.1%.                                                 is unnatural and synthetic. We deserve better
         Here comes the digital delight’ era – with the       than what porn has to offer. We deserve real love,
        proliferation of the internet, pornography was        untainted by the toxicity of pornography. Make
        on steroids and it was no longer an outlier! What     no mistake, porn is a product and the ‘producers’
        was earlier in the passive form became suddenly       of porn dress up their product so well that it ends
        hyperactive. By now, the porn industry was            up inviting so much traffic to their websites that
        completely revolutionised, commercialised, or         it becomes unimaginable at times.
        should I say industrialised. But let’s not lose        Finally, it boils down to your personal choice.
        sight, this journey was not easy, it came with a      Porn can deliver you there at best, or disgust you
        social cost, it came with a social taboo and finally,   at worst. It all depends on what you choose to
        with lot of emotional complexities.                   watch. Porn, like many other things is a personal
         Our society has evolved in every aspect of life      choice. If you enjoy porn and it doesn’t cause any
        in last many years- art, music, technology or         issue, then by all means enjoy it. The temptations
        even porn is NOT insulated from it. Apparently,       at all ages will come, with an occasional slip. But
        society likes to remain ignorantly blissful instead   one should not be captivated by it. Of course, we
        of discussing real issues. What was considered        have to maintain the right balance. After all, it’s a
        taboo in our society is sometimes considered          slippery slope!




















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