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Rangoli designs—elaborate patterns made away from the festival’s simpler, more
from coloured powders—adorned the meaningful roots.
doorstep. These weren’t just decorations; The Diwali festivities would start in right
they were acts of devotion, welcoming the earnest with the day of Dhanteras. People
gods and good fortune into our homes. believe it is a day to buy gold, silver or steel
While electric lights and LED candles utensils. Actually, Dhanteras is a tribute
have gained popularity, nothing compares to Rishi Dhanvantri, the father of the
to the charm of a flickering clay diya. Each Ayurveda. The next day was Kali Choudas,
one tells a story of resilience, hope, and we were not allowed to go out of the house
tradition. after dark for the fear of being harmed
by an evil spirit, which were supposed
Modern Diwali – A Different Lens to roam free that night. The evening was
spent in making little toys, book covers,
kites etc.
The next day would be Diwali and it was
Image courtesy; letsexpresso.com Snan) early in the morning. Breakfast
mandatory to have a bath (Abhyanga
would consist of hot saffron milk, some
fresh samosas and halwa. By this time, the
Pandit would show up giving directions
lunch was a big event, some of was semi-
cooked a day earlier to be ready in time for
Over the years, Diwali has changed. and making his presence felt. The Diwali
For many, it is now an opportunity lunch. There would be a constant stream
for extravagant parties, complete with of visitors and lots of laughter, fun and as
gourmet food, alcohol, and competitive kids we would also have to go and visit
games of cards. In cities like Delhi, these relatives. There was a proper protocol as
Diwali bashes have become status symbols, to where we would go first, second, third
showcasing wealth and opulence. etc. etc. We had to be home by 1.30pm,
Consumerism has also crept in, with with hot tandoori rotis eaten topped with
Diwali sales dominating the festive white makkhan plus a couple of vegetable
season. Shoppers flock to stores and online curries. Desert would be a Phirni in a large
platforms to buy everything from clothes terracotta vessel with silver and gold foil
to electronics. While these sales add a on the surface. It was a house specialty.
layer of excitement, they also reflect a shift After lunch, everybody snoozed off and,
in the evening, we would set up a shop. It
was called a hatti, that is a shop. We have
to bathe again, just before the Diwali Pooja,
we would open the shop and sell the stuff
that we have made or brought from the
Mela. It was a way for elders to interact
and give us money. At around 8pm, there
would be the Lakshmi Pooja, the pandit
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