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Rangoli designs—elaborate patterns made            away from the festival’s simpler, more
         from coloured powders—adorned the                  meaningful roots.
         doorstep. These weren’t just decorations;           The Diwali festivities would start in right
         they were acts of devotion, welcoming the          earnest with the day of Dhanteras. People
         gods and good fortune into our homes.              believe it is a day to buy gold, silver or steel
          While electric lights and LED candles             utensils. Actually, Dhanteras is a tribute
         have gained popularity, nothing compares           to Rishi Dhanvantri, the father of the
         to the charm of a flickering clay diya. Each       Ayurveda. The next day was Kali Choudas,
         one tells a story of resilience, hope, and         we were not allowed to go out of the house
         tradition.                                         after dark for the fear of being harmed
                                                            by an evil spirit, which were supposed
         Modern Diwali – A Different Lens                   to roam free that night. The evening was
                                                            spent in making little toys, book covers,
                                                            kites etc.
                                                             The next day would be Diwali and it was
                                                          Image courtesy; letsexpresso.com  Snan) early in the morning. Breakfast
                                                            mandatory to have a bath (Abhyanga


                                                            would consist of hot saffron milk, some
                                                            fresh samosas and halwa. By this time, the
                                                            Pandit would show up giving directions


                                                            lunch was a big event, some of was semi-
                                                            cooked a day earlier to be ready in time for
         Over the years, Diwali has changed.                and making his presence felt. The Diwali
         For many, it is now an opportunity                 lunch. There would be a constant stream
         for extravagant parties, complete with             of visitors and lots of laughter, fun and as
         gourmet food, alcohol, and competitive             kids we would also have to go and visit
         games of cards. In cities like Delhi, these        relatives. There was a proper protocol as
         Diwali bashes have become status symbols,          to where we would go first, second, third
         showcasing wealth and opulence.                    etc. etc. We had to be home by 1.30pm,
          Consumerism has also crept in, with               with hot tandoori rotis eaten topped with
         Diwali sales dominating the festive                white makkhan plus a couple of vegetable
         season. Shoppers flock to stores and online        curries. Desert would be a Phirni in a large
         platforms to buy everything from clothes           terracotta vessel with silver and gold foil
         to electronics. While these sales add a            on the surface. It was a house specialty.
         layer of excitement, they also reflect a shift     After lunch, everybody snoozed off and,
                                                            in the evening, we would set up a shop. It
                                                            was called a hatti, that is a shop. We have
                                                            to bathe again, just before the Diwali Pooja,
                                                            we would open the shop and sell the stuff
                                                            that we have made or brought from the
                                                            Mela. It was a way for elders to interact
                                                            and give us money. At around 8pm, there
                                                            would be the Lakshmi Pooja, the pandit


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