Page 14 - Seniorstoday Nov 2024 Issue
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Diwali greeting cards hold a special place
                                                            in my heart. My parents encouraged me
                                                            to make handmade cards for relatives, but
                                                            we also purchased beautifully illustrated
                                                            cards from the market. Writing heartfelt
                                                            notes, carefully addressing envelopes, and
                                                            posting them at the neighbourhood post
                                                            office was a ritual in itself.
                                                             Some cards bore images of gods, which
                                                            created an unspoken dilemma when
         Town squares or large fields transformed           it came time to dispose of them. These
         into bustling markets where artisans               weren’t simply thrown away; instead,
         displayed their handcrafted wares—rugs,            they were respectfully immersed in water,
         lanterns, toys, and intricate torans (door         ensuring no inadvertent disrespect.
         hangings). The allure of these markets –            Sadly, this tradition has vanished. Today,
         many subsidised by the local government            WhatsApp forwards and Instagram stories
         - wasn’t just in the shopping but in the           have replaced handwritten cards. While
         atmosphere: the smell of street food               these digital greetings are efficient, they
         wafting through the air, children squealing        lack the warmth and effort of the cards we
         with delight on makeshift Ferris wheels,           once cherished.  Some messages are indeed
         and cultural performances bringing                 creative, cute and funny, but often they
         communities together.                              appear mechanical and impersonal. What
          One of my fondest memories is of buying           goes around, comes around and it’s usually
         clay diyas shaped like little works of art,        a jaded WhatsApp message.
         each ready to be lit and placed around
         the house. These melas brought the spirit          Lighting Diyas and Drawing Rangoli
         of Diwali alive, reminding everyone of
         the beauty of simplicity and the joy of
         togetherness.
          In Mumbai city, there use to be a
         Dussehra Mela at August Kranti Maidan,
         which no longer exists.


         Greeting Cards and Personal Touches




                                                            One Diwali custom that has stood the test
                                                            of time is the lighting of diyas. Their soft
                                                            glow creates an atmosphere of serenity and
                                                            hope, symbolising the victory of light over
                                                            darkness. In our home, the arrangement of
                                                            diyas was a carefully planned affair, with
                                                            each member contributing to the process.


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