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letter – there is depth, detail, intimacy. These      the eyes of a few friends and it is this revealing-
        ‘little signatures of time’ are what distinguish      all character that makes them so attractive.
        them from emails and other forms of digital           There is no thought of their publication, and
        correspondence.                                       thus the restraint of the feeling that a thousand
        And this is why emailing and texting do not feel      eyes are peering over the writer’s shoulder and
        as special. In the age of rapid-fire, efficiency-     scrutinising every word, is absent. They create
        obsessed, typed-with-one-finger-on-a-keyboard         an intimacy that can only be forged one-on-
        and one-eye–on-the-clock, things happen               one, written in one person’s distinctive style to
        on a screen -- emails fly in and pile up, texts       another.
        come and go, information crisscrosses and              Thinking about the lost art of letter-writing,
        on its way often gets lost or deleted. The bulk       I am reminded of a heart-rending story. In the
        of correspondence is forgotten, which just            famous Hindi short story ‘Kaki’ a little boy
        goes to show how all of these technological           Shyamu, too young to understand what death
        “advancements” have weakened communication            means, has been told that his beloved Kaki
        as much as they’ve strengthened them.                 “Ram ke ghar gayi hai”, which is higher than the
        There’s something profound about being able to        clouds. He misses her terribly and wonders why
        reread a letter, to hear the voice of friends and     she does not return. Watching kites flying on
        loved ones in the words they wrote, and imagine       the occasion of Makar Sankranti, he decides to
        how they’d say the phrases. When we save              use these joyously coloured kites to send a letter
        and treasure letters, we preserve a part of that      to Kaki imploring her to return. He attaches
        person, and feel the love they felt for us. Can you   strong ropes that would not break and on which
        see yourself rereading a letter someone wrote         Kaki can easily slide down. All this information
        to you after that person has gone and as you          is contained in his letter, pasted on the kite. The
        gently move your fingers over the handwriting,        envelope is simply addressed as ‘Kaki.”
        you almost feel the touch that loved one? A            A letter is a place where we all become
        handwritten letter is a creative act, a deliberate    storytellers, where moments are transformed
        form of exposure, an expression of vulnerability,     into memories of love and friendship, family
        because handwriting opens a window to the             and care, so that that future generations
        soul in a way that cyber communication can            will know what we valued and believed and
        never do. What Kazuo Ishiguro says about              achieved.
        stories, applies equally to letters because they       Long after after we are gone, no one will care
        too contain, “small scruffy moments and quiet         about the million texts we may have sent.
        private sparks of revelation.”                        But a letter will last, will be passed down to
         There is no other form that is so close to our       generations. Letters are timeless and a legacy.
        private lives as letters are, for they are only for   Thus, we are able to create eternity with words.




























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