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afford to buy a house, send kids to private
         school etc). Working only in a government
         job means that we have regular hours, paid
         leave entitlement, pension, Medicare & other
         benefits.
          When we are on holiday or not at work,
         our time is ours. No phone calls from work,
         no patients calling us directly etc. And now
         both kids are Australian. They will not live in
         India. Can’t live in India. So, there’s even more
         reason to stay here. And other reasons like no
         pollution, clean streets, open spaces help.
          Emotional attachment is to the people –
         family in India. Some attachment to the
         homes but most have been replaced with
         modern buildings so they are not the ones
         from memory.
          Need to pay back: Yes, definitely. Everyone I
         speak to feels this very strongly. We do what
         we can- contribute to charities, give our time
         when we can- Amit does research projects in
         India & teaches young doctors the principles
         of research, helps them design good projects        Religious views and forced observation
         & gets them funding for their projects. I do       also play a role. Especially when politicians
         teaching/training for medical students, junior     use it against other religions, for example
         doctors & nurses in managing childbirth            discrimination based on religion. Rules
         emergencies. The wanting to give back is the       and laws should be for all to follow and not
         strongest emotional attachment we have.            different for Hindus or Muslims.
         And the gratitude for a highly subsidised           On the other hand, leaving parents, family
         education                                          and friends behind is a big sacrifice but if
                                                            that is what my parents wanted and wished
         Rajendra Navlurkar – 31 years in the US            so that we would have a better life says it all.
         Better opportunities (education and career),        Parents are the driving reasons as to why
         seeking a better life, job prospects in 1989       young people are leaving India. They have
         were not so great.                                 sacrificed everything and want better things
          US offers a life which is not necessarily         for the next generation(s).
         affected by corruption (although it’s here as       Medicines and access to better health care
         well) which is part of life in India.              are additional reasons.
          Civic sense and general understanding of           It’s not easy to be an outsider in any country.
         cleanliness is missing back home. I’m sure it      It’s challenging but overall at least you can
         has changed significantly but things haven’t       have better life.
         change much for the lower income folks in           Still miss India but make do with great
         India.                                             memories and going back whenever possible.


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