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be gifted tomorrow. Be grateful and enjoy the
         ‘now’.
          There is plenty of time; time is infinite, but
         our life is not – it is for us to use it wisely
         or waste it foolishly. I had some delightful
         and wondrous learnings about our ancient
         Indian philosophical thoughts over two-
         months during the lockdown. Our culture
         is a veritable treasure trove of exceptional
         thinkers and thoughts.
          We can either despair about the situation or      WhatsApp is a great university of shares and views, but
         repair our position. Choose the latter – build     most of it is junk, unverified, and sometimes outright false
         your immunity – of your body and mind.             recover at the risk of their own lives.
         We will automatically be better prepared to         WhatsApp is a great university of shares
         face any situation. I have several friends well    and views – every Ram, Rahim and Ramsay
         over 60 – almost 90% of them were worried          will share or hold forth and force a point of
         about attracting the microbe. The other 10%        view about Covid and cure and everything
         got into active immunity building – in terms       under the sun, but most of it will be junk or
         of breathing exercises, physical exercises         unverified – sift out the chaff for your own
         and eating right. This gave them the               good and mental wellbeing.
         confidence to handle the scary and morbid           Being closeted with family is good and
         times.                                             great, but if your neck is going to be
          Never assume that we are in complete              spondylitised by WhatsApp all the time, you
         control, we never are!                             will only crane the relationships. Be smart
          Family matters, so do true friends - we all       and throw out the smartphones.
         enter and exit alone, but family and friends        The only way to get rid of the fear of
         make our journey worthwhile.                       the unknown and have some equipoise
          Seek out senior citizens that you know and        is to meditate – catch your ‘me’ time and
         proffer help – make them feel secure and           experience ‘inner solitude’. Great way to
         wanted.                                            declutter your mind and myths. Withdrawal
          If you are fortunate to have surplus of           from the world often is not escapism, but
         anything, just share it and lighten yourself.      catharsis.
          Be responsible and never let your guard            Respond wisely, react prudently – for what
         down – wearing masks and avoiding crowds           will remain with people is your deeds and
         is a must, why run the risk of exposure.           words at crucial moments.
         Shed the bravado that it can only happen to         As we near the end of 2020, I have realised
         others.                                            that the plains are not a bad place to be
          Reach out to your neighbours, if any in           in – it makes you grounded and real – and
         their family have got the virus – they do          can prepare you for your next climb to the
         need our help and support in more ways             peaks. That’s what I plan to do in the not-too-
         than one – for tomorrow it could be our turn.      distant future – for me, hope is in the mind
          Empathise with doctors and healthcare             and belief is in the action.
         workers who are relentlessly helping people         Gloom will die, but bloom will thrive!


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