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or wind
         • difficulty emptying your bladder or bowel
         • vaginal heaviness or a bulge
         • pain in the bladder, bowel or in your back
         near the pelvic floor area when exercising
         the pelvic floor or during intercourse
          These problems may not necessarily be
         linked to weak pelvic floor muscles and
         should be properly assessed.
          Important information for men who have
         undergone prostate surgery
          Performing pelvic floor muscle exercises
         before and after prostate surgery is vital
         to your recovery as it is these muscles that
         help you control your bladder.
          Doing pelvic floor muscle exercises after
         surgery (whilst a urinary catheter is in
         place) can irritate the bladder and cause
         discomfort. It is therefore recommended
         that you do not do any exercises during
         this time. However, once the catheter is            Like all exercises, pelvic floor exercises are
         removed you may start the pelvic floor             most effective when individually tailored
         exercises straight away.                           and monitored.


                                            “Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want
                                            to give, but cannot. All the unspent love gathers up in the cor-
                                            ners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in the hollow
                                            part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.” – Jamie
                                            Anderson


                                            Psychologists believe writing about grief can reduce pain. Research
                Share                       has found that putting down one’s thoughts about worries and con-
                                            cerns can help those looking for ways to cope with their grief.
                  Your                      While writing requires motivation, energy and dedication, it’s easy,

                                            less stressful and all one needs is a pen, paper, computer or your
                 Grief                      device keypad. You don’t have to talk to anyone about it.


                                            At Seniors Today, we are happy to provide you a forum to publish
                                            your personal accounts. Simply mail them to us at editor@senior-
                                            stoday.in with Share Your Grief in the subject. Please also include
                                            your name and contact number so that we may contact you in case
                                            we wish to make any clarification. While we would like you to write
                                            the first person account with your name, we will – needless to say –
                                            not disclose your information if you wouldn’t like us to.



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