Language has a way of moving on without warning. Just when we think we’ve caught up, a cheerful ‘LOL’ or brisk ‘BRB’ appears… shorter words, yet somehow saying just as much, writes Vickram Sethi
There was a time when language changed like the seasons. Gently, almost imperceptibly. One hardly noticed when a new word entered the room; it would simply take a chair and stay. Today, however, language arrives like an unannounced grandchild… it is playful, inventive, and sometimes delightfully puzzling
The young, it seems, have developed a fondness for brevity. Where we once wrote letters, and later, long messages, they now converse in swift fragments. A ‘BRB’ stands in for ‘be right back’, ‘IMO’ politely offers an opinion, and ‘LOL’ assures us that something is, indeed, amusing. Even emotions, once carefully worded, now appear as cheerful little symbols—faces that smile, wink, or laugh without a single syllable spoken.
This is not, as one might suspect, a decline in expression. It is, rather, an adjustment to a world that moves at a rather breathless pace. Conversations slip in between tasks, during journeys, even while one is doing something else. The language, therefore, has learnt to travel light.
Popular culture, too, plays its part. A line from a song, a phrase from a short video, or something said by a well-known figure can, within days, find its way into everyday conversation. It travels swiftly – faster than our old inland letters ever could – and settles into common usage before one has quite caught up.
Curiously, while the words have grown shorter, the feelings have not. If anything, they have become more pronounced. An ‘ok’ may sound adequate, but an ‘okayyy’ carries warmth; a few extra letters, a capital word, or an enthusiastic sprinkling of exclamation marks can change the tone entirely. And those small, expressive icons – the emojis – do much of the emotional work that sentences once did.
At first encounter, this new idiom may feel like a puzzle. One listens to a grandchild and wonders if a translation might be in order. But a little curiosity goes a long way. Beneath the abbreviations and symbols lies something familiar: humour, affection, and the simple desire to connect.
After all, every generation has had its private vocabulary. Words that once puzzled us eventually became part of our own speech. So it will be with these. Some will fade away quietly; others will linger and become part of the language we all share.
The next time an unfamiliar phrase comes your way, consider it an invitation rather than an interruption. Ask, smile, and perhaps even attempt it yourself. You may find that what seemed like a barrier is, in fact, a bridge—one that leads not just to understanding, but to a shared moment of delight.
In the end, this new lingo is not merely a collection of fashionable words. It is a reflection of a changing world—quick, inventive, and deeply connected. One need not master it entirely. A touch of openness, a hint of curiosity, and the conversation, like all good conversations, will find its way.
Say Less: A Senior’s Guide to Today’s Slang

No cap — I am being completely honest
Cap — That is not true / You are lying
Bet — Alright / Agreed
Say less — I understand / No need to explain further
I’m dead — That is extremely funny
It’s giving — It feels like / It resembles
Slay — You do that very well
Period — That is final / End of discussion
Low-key — Somewhat / A little
High-key — Very / Definitely
I can’t even — I am overwhelmed or speechless
This ain’t it — This is not good
It hits different — It feels special or unique
I’m vibing — I am enjoying this
Not me doing — I can’t believe I am doing this

Living rent-free — Constantly on my mind
Main character energy — Feeling confident and important
Delulu — Slightly unrealistic or overly optimistic
Rizz — Charm or ability to attract others
NPC — Someone behaving without independent thought
Pick-me — Someone seeking attention or approval
Stan — A very enthusiastic admirer
Ghosting — Suddenly cutting off communication
Situationship — An undefined romantic relationship
Ate — Did something exceptionally well
Mid — Average or mediocre
Trash — Very poor quality
Fire — Excellent / Very good
Bussin’ — Extremely good (often for food)
Sus — Suspicious
DM me — Send me a private message
FOMO — Fear of missing out
POV — Point of view
Viral — Widely shared or popular online
Cancelled — Publicly criticised or rejected
Touch grass — Spend time in the real world
Crying — I find this very funny
Deadass — Seriously / Truly
Sending me — Making me laugh a lot
I’m screaming — Extremely funny or shocking
Adulting – doing normal grown up responsibilities like paying bills, cooking, or managing life
Basic – someone who follows common trends and isn’t very unique
Extra – overly dramatic or doing more than necessary
Salty – bitter, annoyed, or upset (often over something small)
Shook – very surprised or emotionally affected
Lit – very exciting, fun, or enjoyable
Vibe/Vibing – the feeling or atmosphere; getting along well or enjoying the moment
Mood – something very relatable to how you feel
Dragged – publicly criticised or called out harshly

Thirsty – desperate for attention, approval, or attraction
Glow up – a noticeable improvement in appearance or lifestyle
Clapback – a quick, clever response to criticism
Triggered – strong emotional reaction to something upsetting
Flex – to show off or brag about something
Fam – short for family, but used casually for people very close to you as well
Woke – someone seen as overly politically correct, preachy, or performative about social issues.
Namine – Do you know, what I mean



























